Less Expecting, More Believing

   So, I guess we can all say we always expect things too happen, way too much. I mean, I just can't help imagining  things that could happen in my head. It just comes naturally. And sometimes we all do it just to make ourselves satisfied or happy. 

  Recently I have been hoping of a certain "dream" to appear in my head. Sadly, it hasn't happened yet until last night. You see, before the dream happened I already created my own "dream" in my head and I would always think about everynight before I go to sleep because I thought there was a slight chance I might have that dream I was "dreaming" about. Then when I finally had that dream, I thought, this was not what I expected. In my "dream", it was more about what could happen in the future, although we all know if we expect things to happen, it won't actually happen. Sucks, huh? 

  He practically ignored me in the dream. You know how dreams are always extra/super weird right? Well, there's that and ugh its always hard to describe dreams. I was kinda bummed how he didn't really acknowledge my existence, except his grandmother lol. His grandmother was nice enough to welcome me, but later on she turned into a piece of furniture..... dreams pfft. The dream probably started at a super huge house. A mansion perhaps? But it was kind of connected to the next door, where he was staying. And suddenly I was in another room, there he was, wearing a straight face, and in that moment I swear we made eye contact for about 2+ seconds. Then he looked away, as expected. It was like I was invisible, no? Cause not a single expression was shown. Then we saw each other a few times again, its like I wasn't even there. Of course we all know, dreams are just dreams. And things will only happen if Allah SWT wants it to happen.

  Not just in dreams, in life too. People always get hurt by expecting too much. You see girls dumping guys cause they expected more from them. You see marriages falling apart because they expected they could be happy. You see people failing their ambitions because they expected they could succeed. But the truth is, expecting is only going to bring you down and everyone knows it yet we all do it. Instead, we should just not think about the future and think about the spectacular now. The present. And just believe we can do it.

  To be on safe side and not get hurt, less expecting, more believing ( praying helps too ).